I have been dating my boyfriend Andrew exclusively for 1 year now and I really do love him. He is ready to take the next step and move in together but I am questioning whether we are a good match for a long term commitment. I never have to question things or try to figure him out because he is always so even keeled and non confrontational. Our sex life is good; a little on the vanilla side but I am very attracted to him physically! What do you suggest I do?

He is the ultimate nice guy and is everything a girl would want! He really is a perfect boyfriend. The problem is: I am used to bad boys and really miss the excitement of it all! I am 31 years old and should be ready for a real relationship by now, but there is something that keeps pulling me back from wanting a normal conventional existence with one guy. I know I should be thankful that I have someone in my life who loves me unconditionally without all the B.S.

I miss the intensity of bad boy sex and spontaneous get-togethers from my past a year ago. of a guy who is only there for a "good time not a long time," but I admit I am a little bored with Andrew. Thanks, April84 [Tweet "It is time to grow in another direction and leave your past behind #RelationshipAdvice"] Dear April, Have you ever thought about what it would be like for you not to have Andrew in your life? Tell him what you like and take the initiative to change it.

Are you possibly taking him for granted because he is always available and there for you? Maybe you are used to the up and down drama from your past "bad boy relationships" and miss that intensity of the constant mystery. Are you really OK with your past booty call lifestyle and can you see that continuing on for the rest of your life? If your sex-life is too vanilla with Andrew then you need to discuss ways to spice it up. Most guys are pretty open to new things in the bedroom!